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Sunday, 1 February 2009
Welcome page ...
Hello one and all....
My partner and I decided to design a web page, to help others who may be in the same predicament as us, and to hopfully find some kind hearted soles out there who may be able to help us out as well.
We are a couple like many who need I.V.F treatment to have children but have been refused funding by the N.H.S. because one of us (in our case emma) already has a child from a previous relationship . Therefore we were told we would have to fund the treatment ourselves which could cost in excess of £10.000 .
As a couple in private rented 2 bed house on basic sallarys there is no way we can afford to save up this amount of money before emma reaches the age of 35 ( the I.V.F treatment cut off age ) after all the bills have been payed for. We put every spare penny aside but it's just not enough.... the way things are Joe will probably never have the chance to father his own child, something he wants so much.
Hello one and all....
My partner and I decided to design a web page, to help others who may be in the same predicament as us, and to hopfully find some kind hearted soles out there who may be able to help us out as well.
We are a couple like many who need I.V.F treatment to have children but have been refused funding by the N.H.S. because one of us (in our case emma) already has a child from a previous relationship . Therefore we were told we would have to fund the treatment ourselves which could cost in excess of £10.000 .
As a couple in private rented 2 bed house on basic sallarys there is no way we can afford to save up this amount of money before emma reaches the age of 35 ( the I.V.F treatment cut off age ) after all the bills have been payed for. We put every spare penny aside but it's just not enough.... the way things are Joe will probably never have the chance to father his own child, something he wants so much.
joe's story
Joes story...
Joe.
age: 20
occupation: skilled butcher
interests: photography , walking , rock climbing , sightseeing , cycling , cooking and animals.
Born in Bolton in Lancashire on 19/05/1987 at the age of 4 I moved to Herefordshire with my parents to a lovely little village called Holme Lacy where I spent many a happy year growing up and playing in the surrounding country side . Now a few years later and after failing my GCSE I got stuck working in one of my local supermarkets Morrisons but it wasn’t all bad , while training to become a butcher I met the love of my life the woman who was to become my soul mate , Emma , and instantly fell in love but things weren't as simple as they first looked , she was involved and already had a child , called Andrew . I had never been involved in a relationship where there was already a child present I have to admit I was a bit worried how he would react to me when I eventually met him . We had our first date on Boxing day 2005 and this is when Emma told me about Andrew and the now ex boyfriend. ,Things were not as bad as they seamed because she told me she was not happy in the relationship she was in and she told me that she felt the same way about me as I did for her , she was every thing I had ever dreamed of . The day came when I eventually met Andrew and to my surprise we got on great and things between me and Emma just got better and better . There was just one thing that niggled away at us we wanted to have a child of our own but there was a problem. Emma had told me from day one that she had had 2 Ectopic pregnancies and had had to have both Fallopian tubes removed I knew what this meant but I loved Emma and that’s all that mattered to me. I tried to put it to the back of my mind but the more time I spent with Andrew the more I wanted to have a child of our own. About 6-8 months after we got together we moved in together with Andrew and things have never been better, but for me there is one thing missing from my life stopping it from being complete and that is not having a child of my own. As we said on our home page there is no way we can afford to have I.V.F. treatment and this is where I ask for your help if you can spare even just a penny please visit our funding plea page and help us make a dream come true. Many thanks Joe Barton...
Emma’s story...
Emma.
age: 27
occupation: technical sales assistant
interests: walking , sightseeing and cycling, photography and gaming
Hello my name is Emma and I am 27 years old. I have a seven year old son and am lucky enough to have a wonderful fiance (Joe) who adores me and my son as much as we adore him. In that respect I am very lucky to have found someone so loving and kind and someone willing to treat and love my son as his own. There is just one thing I would give anything to be able to do and that is to have a child with Joe but sadly that is alot more complicated than usual.....on my 17th birthday I was busy getting ready to go out and celebrate when the most horrendous pain shot through my stomach, I had been getting cramps but hadn't thought to much about it, but the pain was just to much so I went to the hospital, i remember waiting to be seen and the next thing I remember is opening my eyes and trying to sit up and being held back down and told not to worry I was in hospital and a doctor would come and see me soon. When the doctor arrived he explained I'd had an Ectopic Pregnancy and they had to remove my right fallopean tube but not to worry as I still had my left tube in good working order. And it was as just over 18 months later I was pregnant with my son and over the moon I was going to be a mum. I had always wanted to be a mum and being a mum is better than I ever imagined. Sadly a few years later I was walking to town one day and once again I had that awful pain I remembered feeling before and went straight to hospital but once again it was too late and my tube had ruptured and had to be removed. That meant I couldn't have any more children and at the time with the relationship I was in that was fine with me, I had my wonderful son and I thought of him as my miracle baby and resigned myself to only having one child. That was until I met my fiance Joe and everything changed. One of the first things I told him was that I couldn't have anymore children naturally because of the Ectopics. Joe is alot younger than me and no matter how much he assured me that it was okay it was me he wanted to be with I knew he wanted to have a child of his own. He will be a wonderful daddy he has so much love to give and he is amazing with my son. I Know you don't know us but Please find it in your hearts to help us to achieve our dream of becoming a complete family and make a donation to help us to be able to afford IVF.
Emma.
age: 27
occupation: technical sales assistant
interests: walking , sightseeing and cycling, photography and gaming
Hello my name is Emma and I am 27 years old. I have a seven year old son and am lucky enough to have a wonderful fiance (Joe) who adores me and my son as much as we adore him. In that respect I am very lucky to have found someone so loving and kind and someone willing to treat and love my son as his own. There is just one thing I would give anything to be able to do and that is to have a child with Joe but sadly that is alot more complicated than usual.....on my 17th birthday I was busy getting ready to go out and celebrate when the most horrendous pain shot through my stomach, I had been getting cramps but hadn't thought to much about it, but the pain was just to much so I went to the hospital, i remember waiting to be seen and the next thing I remember is opening my eyes and trying to sit up and being held back down and told not to worry I was in hospital and a doctor would come and see me soon. When the doctor arrived he explained I'd had an Ectopic Pregnancy and they had to remove my right fallopean tube but not to worry as I still had my left tube in good working order. And it was as just over 18 months later I was pregnant with my son and over the moon I was going to be a mum. I had always wanted to be a mum and being a mum is better than I ever imagined. Sadly a few years later I was walking to town one day and once again I had that awful pain I remembered feeling before and went straight to hospital but once again it was too late and my tube had ruptured and had to be removed. That meant I couldn't have any more children and at the time with the relationship I was in that was fine with me, I had my wonderful son and I thought of him as my miracle baby and resigned myself to only having one child. That was until I met my fiance Joe and everything changed. One of the first things I told him was that I couldn't have anymore children naturally because of the Ectopics. Joe is alot younger than me and no matter how much he assured me that it was okay it was me he wanted to be with I knew he wanted to have a child of his own. He will be a wonderful daddy he has so much love to give and he is amazing with my son. I Know you don't know us but Please find it in your hearts to help us to achieve our dream of becoming a complete family and make a donation to help us to be able to afford IVF.
Funding plee...
This is where anyone who has a kind heart can help a couple in need . As you may have read on the previous pages there is nothing on this earth that we (Emma & Joe) want more than to have a child and for Joe all he wants is to be able to father his own child one day. No matter how hard we save we know that we will never be able to afford I.V.F treatment on our own this is why we are calling out for your help ....
If you have read our story and have been touched and would be kind enough to help us out then all we can say is a massive thank you . this the best gift you could ever give anyone ever , one that will never ever be forgotten.
Please don’t think we being cheeky when we ask for your help because we don’t usually ask for money but this is the only way we can think of helping fund our treatment. So if you can understand our pain and would like to help fill the gap in our lives then please all we ask for is £1.00 or what ever you can afford to give, every penny will help honestly it will . You can find our address on the contact page or there is a paypal donations link at the top of the page , if you send your name and address aswell we will keep you posted on how its all going. We can't thank you enough for any support you can give to us.
This is where anyone who has a kind heart can help a couple in need . As you may have read on the previous pages there is nothing on this earth that we (Emma & Joe) want more than to have a child and for Joe all he wants is to be able to father his own child one day. No matter how hard we save we know that we will never be able to afford I.V.F treatment on our own this is why we are calling out for your help ....
If you have read our story and have been touched and would be kind enough to help us out then all we can say is a massive thank you . this the best gift you could ever give anyone ever , one that will never ever be forgotten.
Please don’t think we being cheeky when we ask for your help because we don’t usually ask for money but this is the only way we can think of helping fund our treatment. So if you can understand our pain and would like to help fill the gap in our lives then please all we ask for is £1.00 or what ever you can afford to give, every penny will help honestly it will . You can find our address on the contact page or there is a paypal donations link at the top of the page , if you send your name and address aswell we will keep you posted on how its all going. We can't thank you enough for any support you can give to us.
Contact page ...
hello ..
If you have got this far and your still here then you must have found this site of some use.
If you have any questions , comments or would like to know more about any subject on this site then please don’t hesitate to contact us and we will do our best to help out .
alternatively you can leave a comment .
my e-mail :
joelbarton87(at)hotmail.co.uk
hello ..
If you have got this far and your still here then you must have found this site of some use.
If you have any questions , comments or would like to know more about any subject on this site then please don’t hesitate to contact us and we will do our best to help out .
alternatively you can leave a comment .
my e-mail :
joelbarton87(at)hotmail.co.uk
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